Tuesday 8 May 2007

Tears and hugs

We have just got back from a week in the UK. It was a time of mixed emotions; happy to see our friends and family but sad to finally say goodbye to Chris’ father. Chris’ Mum wanted a celebration of Malcolm’s life and it was a poignant mix of personal tributes and beautiful music. It was really moving to hear the lullaby that Sheila and Malcolm used to sing to the boys to get them to sleep. Malcolm had been a keen runner when he was younger and the curtain finally closed to the music of chariots of fire.

It was hard to leave after such a brief time, knowing that behind us were a family still mourning. Its times like this when you want your family around you and hugs become so important. I will remember last week for the tearful smiles and loads of hugs. Real hugs where you know the person is hugging you from the bottom of their heart.